What people are saying on Google about Marriage Counseling in Raleigh with Irina

Irina pretty much saved my marriage and made our emotional connection even stronger than before we had children, so I highly recommend her to all my family and friends struggling with communication and “roommate” marriage type problems. She is not only extremely knowledgeable, but also direct, caring, and very compassionate person. It might take you awhile to get there, but you won’t regret your investment, I promise you that.

“Working with Irina has been an incredibly meaningful experience for both my husband and me. From the very first session, her presence was undeniable — calm, steady, and completely attuned to both of us. She holds a space that feels both grounded and warmly human, striking the perfect balance between professionalism and heartfelt connection.

Through her use of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), she gently guided us to uncover and truly understand the cycles that were playing out in our relationship — the unconscious patterns of reaction, protection, and misunderstanding that kept us feeling stuck. Rather than focusing on surface-level communication skills, she helped us dive deeper into the emotions and fears driving our behaviors, creating a new language between us rooted in vulnerability and trust.

What stood out most about her style was her unwavering presence. She noticed the smallest shifts in body language, tone, or energy, and brought them into the room with clarity and compassion — allowing us to slow down, reflect, and truly hear one another in a way we hadn’t before. She gently challenged us when necessary but always with respect and care, making space for both of our perspectives without ever taking sides.

Because of her guidance, we not only understand our patterns, but we also now have the tools to move through them — with curiosity instead of judgment, and connection instead of disconnection. Our relationship feels stronger, safer, and more open because of the work we did with her.

We are deeply grateful and would recommend Irina without hesitation to any couple looking to heal, reconnect, and grow together.”

10 years together, google review left June 2025

We've just completed a full day EFT intensive with Irina, and are shocked how much we didn't know about how each of us was really feeling on the inside (we have been together for a very long time). This technique is simply amazing and I am actually excited to continue working on my relationship for the very first time ever. Just do it.

Irina has been an absolute blessing in our lives. With her compassionate approach, she has not only helped to save our marriage but also guided us towards a future filled with love, understanding, and anticipation. We are now proud parents-to-be, expecting twins, and we owe a great portion of our unity to Irina's expertise.

From our very first session, Irina made it a priority to ensure that both my husband and I felt heard and understood. Her genuine nature and empathetic demeanor created a safe space for us to express our deepest fears, frustrations, and desires. Irina's ability to connect with us on an emotional level fostered a sense of trust that was vital for the healing process.

One of the most remarkable aspects of Irina's approach is her authenticity. She never hesitated to challenge us when necessary, encouraging us to confront uncomfortable truths and address unresolved issues. Her guidance extended beyond mere words, as she provided practical recommendations for activities and work that would help us rebuild our connection. We followed her suggestions, and even months later, we continue to reap the benefits.

What truly sets Irina apart is her genuine passion for counseling. It is evident that she isn't driven by financial gain but rather by a sincere desire to help couples find happiness and harmony. Irina consistently demonstrated that she had our best interests at heart, and she never hesitated to let us know when she believed we were ready to graduate from therapy or when she felt we needed more work. This level of transparency and honesty allowed us to trust her deeply.

If you find yourself in need of a marriage therapist who leads with compassion, authenticity, and true dedication to her craft, we wholeheartedly recommend Irina. She has the power to transform relationships and bring joy and fulfillment back into your life. Trust in her expertise, and you will find yourself on a path towards a brighter, happier future

There are no words to adequately describe the incredible therapy I received from Irina. She is truly one of a kind. While struggling with divorce and all the feelings and emotions that entails, therapy with Irina was truly a Blessing for me. She is so insightful and knowledgeable in so many ways. My time in therapy with her changed my life!!!

What isn’t there to say about Irina! She is the most balanced, knowledgeable & sincere therapist I have met to date. She listens, and I mean really listens, she is compassionate but sure to offer you the professional feedback you need from a perspective that will allow growth, peace and healing in your own situation. She has much experience and was highly recommended and I see why. In a world where many of us just need a healthy resource she was beyond my expectations. I felt she really wanted me to improve on all levels and meeting her has enriched my life is many ways.

My partner and I have done couple’s therapy before with different therapists and approaches over time, our experience with Irina has been outstanding, valuable and rewarding. It is very hard to do this kind of work wholeheartedly but she has been amazing at providing a safe and respectful space, with the right measure of open and guided dialogue and exercises not just to learn communication skills that has been the focus with other therapists in the past, but to actually address the hard topics in a truly professional and caring manner. She is very keen with her observations and reflecting back major points of reflection and awareness that have actually been relevant and useful to us as a couple and as individuals. We are grateful and fortunate to have found her and to be able to do therapy with her.

My (now) wife and I began couples therapy a couple years ago because we felt compatible for marriage but there were many other feelings we had trouble expressing and resolving. With Irina’s EFT we were able to first find ways to get to the heart of our disputes at an emotional level. We could connect first, then work to resolve our problems together. Then, Irina led us through other personal emotional breakthroughs that helped give each of us context around our own and our partner’s behaviors. Next, she gave us frameworks to connect with each other, repair when needed, and help us step out of patterns and renew our bond.

Irina, we cannot thank you enough for helping us build an emotional foundation for our marriage and future family!

I have worked with Irina for over a year and can’t believe the progress I have made in both my relationships and personally. She puts in so much time and effort between sessions and I can’t thank her enough for all her guidance. She has truly changed my life for the better!

Irina is such a gift to the mental health community. She is so knowledgable and compassionate. She has a way of lifting you up while also encouraging you to look deeper into yourself to ensure that you are accessing the best version of who you are and what you have to offer the world. Her honesty and ability to keep it real is so refreshing and always makes me feel safe. I'm so grateful to have met her and feel I have grown so much as a result of her support. She brings the perfect balance of empathy and grit to all her interactions, something that I feel is very necessary when working with couples. She's one of the few therapists I have ever met who has the talent and tact to identify where a behavior or thought process is unproductive in a manner that still makes you feel seen and loved. Her approach is
non-judgemental but honest and straightforward. I feel so blessed to have met her and only wish she had come into my life sooner! Thank you so much Irina for your inspiration and support!

Irina is such an insightful treasure. She will be your sounding board, a wonderful support system and give you the push you need to make changes. She will not judge you or anyone in your life, she simply listens and helps you find a way forward. She is very kind and presents honesty in a constructive way. I have worked with Irina on a professional level and she has coached me through personal experiences. Her objective perspective and critical thinking are profoundly beneficial. I recommend Irina to anyone that is struggling with a relationship in their life or just needs a supportive and healthy way to get things off their chest.

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